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wasting timeMaybe it is the Amish in me, but I have never been good at wasting time. First thing in the morning it seems my mind is alert, and I’m thinking of the next problem to be solved, the next essay to be written, then the next meeting to attend, and the day’s work to be done. Everyone tut tuts at how hard I work, but my response is that I am blessed. I love my work, so while it may be work, it is not drudgery.

While conservatives moan about “the entitlement culture,” the number of people who rely on handouts, rising unemployment and the number of jobs shipped overseas, America is still a nation of workers. We are hard-wired to work hard, and most of us like the accomplishment and reward of honest work. Our culture of busyness extends to our leisure time. We want to play as hard as we work, so vacations, weekends and days off are spent doing something. We are off climbing mountains, visiting museums, hiking, boating, playing games, refining a craft, taking a course, taking up a new language, a new sport, a new hobby or activity. We go nonstop. We work and we play. We play and we work.

If we are religious, we turn our hyperactivity into a kind of religious mania. Religious do-gooders—we are forever starting new apostolates, building new ministries, running about trying to end world poverty, stop abortion, correct politicians, preserve the environment, rescue the perishing, and care for the dying. Obsessed with work and making ourselves useful, we turn our church into a hive of mindless drones humming about the queen. We have become religious workaholics—working for work’s sake and not God’s.

In the midst of this hectic schedule I need to stop, look, and listen. I need to sit and look out my window.

To look out my window several things need to be in place. First, I need my chair. I am not going to glance out the window. I am going to gaze out the window until I am aware of more than what I see. As soon as I do this my body starts to unwind. I am taking deep breaths. My blood pressure is going down.

I am just looking out the window.

That is all.

What am I looking at? A tree. A squirrel. A cardinal and a jay. I see the dog luxuriating in the morning sun. I see a leaf fall. Before too long my mind is in the state where I am thinking of nothing and am therefore open to everything. I am connected with those other living things in “a condition of complete simplicity costing not less than everything.”

The monks say prayer is “wasting time with God,” and St. Benedict says that prayer is “opus Dei”—God’s work. The word “liturgy” means “work of the laity,” so perhaps God’s best work is not all our busy activity for him, but what we might call wasting time with God.

looking_out_the_window_by_piechie-d3r6sx8Only a short time of looking out the window reminds me that I am not very good at wasting time. Immediately my busy mind turns to “more important things.” I am desperate to do something else, but force myself to stay and waste time at the window. Then I realize not only that I am addicted to my work, but why I am addicted. With a sad realization I see it is because my work is rewarding. I get strokes. People praise me for my work. I love the attention and low-level adoration. There is no praise and glory in looking out the window and wasting time. No wonder I do not want to do it.

Is that why we work so hard? It’s not only for the money—its for the pride of life. “See what I’ve done! Praise me please! Give me trophies. Tell me what a golden boy I am!”

Golden boy? Golden calf. I have become my own idol.

If so, then such a desperate poison needs an antidote, and I believe the antidote is learning again the gentle art of wasting time.

As I look out the window I look into myself and encounter the “still point of the turning world… a grace of sense, a white light still and moving, erhebung without motion, concentration without elimination, both a new world and the old made explicit.”

Dark areas within are opened to the light. Doors of the heart are unlocked. Reservoirs of ideas are released. Resentments are reconciled. Harbored memories are unbound. “The expense of spirit in a waste of shame” is forgiven and forgotten. Expansive new vistas are viewed, unexpected possibilities are explored, and the moment of time opens into the timeless.

Looking out the window puts everything else in perspective, and I remember that wasting time might just be the very best use of time.

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  1. Looking forward to the day I can take you to task over an article you’ve written. I’m a patient man. Sooner or later. In the meantime, a blessed and happy Thanksgiving to you Father, and to all those whom you love.

  2. The phrase “wasting time” has a negative connotation. If one is doing something that relaxes, draws attention to silence or our discomfort with the absence of noise or activity that does not make that time wasteful. What an opportunity to note the difference between that moment and everyday life. There is life beyond our own singular focus! How often do we take the time to notice the ground beneath us or the sky above us or even the people around us? Culture tells us that we must excel to be worthwhile and to excel one must work hard. In a society increasingly attached to electronic devices, connecting with the natural world, other people and our own interior world in a peaceful moment is a special blessing. As a task oriented person, I have come to view these times as opportunities to see what God is drawing me to see. The day that dawned on me I thought what have I missed by not stopping to look up, down or around me all these years? I began to notice birds of prey, insects and wild animals right where I was living. No special circumstances brought them my way. They had always been there. I simply stopped to look and listen more. That was the opening God needed from me,to get me on the path He wished me to be on.. Our path may be straight ahead, but there are always moments around us waiting to be discovered. Small blessings with big benefits. What we see as wasteful may be a saving Grace.

  3. I have been trying so hard to transition, what I believe are bad habits to good habits. One of my devotions this morning was about the problem of laziness, or another word for procrastination! I have so many things in my life I am trying to change and although over time I see small steps of improvement, I am not satisfied.

    A big part of my struggle is concern and sometimes anxiety over lack of finances. Although I am a senior citizen and should be in a position to be able to live off my meager income, I keep trying to get work to supplement that income so I can afford basic living, doctor appointments i.e. dental and eyes, quality foods, etc. I pray for peace within and for God to show me the way to following His path.

  4. What a bittersweet comment by Ann M.

    It reminds me how remiss I am in being a friend to senior citizens (I’m one, too!) who are alone and who struggle to make ends meet. What exactly is the sin that keeps me from making a meal for two people and walking a hundred yards across a field to a nearby building where there are people my age without families to look out for them and sharing a meal with them?

    I remember a time, almost a half century ago, when I was a callow teenager working as a hospital orderly, cleaning bed sores on old men’s bottoms, and thinking:

    “Dear Lord, may someone look after me when I am old, like I do for them today.”

    Sadly, I seem to have forgotten the lesson of that experience.

  5. The 59th Street Bridge Song (Feelin’ Groovy)
    Slow down, you move too fast
    You got to make the morning last
    Just kicking down the cobblestones
    Looking for fun and feelin’ groovy
    Ba da da da da da da, feelin’ groovy

    Hello, lamppost, what’cha knowin’?
    I’ve come to watch your flowers growin’
    Ain’t’cha got no rhymes for me?
    Doot-in doo-doo, feelin’ groovy
    Ba da da da da da da, feelin’ groovy

    I got no deeds to do
    No promises to keep
    I’m dappled and drowsy and ready to sleep
    Let the morning time drop all its petals on me
    Life, I love you
    All is groovy

    — Paul Simon

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